How to Align Your Daily Routine With Your Dream Life Goals

Hey bestie,

Let me start by saying, I’ve been in the trenches. I know what it feels like to stare at a life that’s nothing like the one you dreamed of and wonder how you’re ever going to dig yourself out. I became a single mom at 19, and two years ago, I lost my partner in the most tragic way. There were days I couldn’t even imagine living a “dream life” because just surviving felt impossible. But here’s the thing—no matter how heavy life feels, you can still chase after your dreams. I’m proof of that, and I want to help you become proof too.

So let’s dive into aligning your daily routine with your dream life goals. It’s not just about aesthetics (though a cute outfit and glowing skin definitely help—trust me on this!). It’s about creating small, intentional habits that move you closer to the life you’ve always wanted.

Step 1: Get Crystal Clear on Your Dream Life

Before you can create a routine, you need to know what you’re working toward. Here’s where I’m going to get a little real with you. Back when I felt stuck in survival mode, I didn’t even know what my dream life looked like anymore. I had to sit down and really ask myself some hard questions, like:

What does my dream day look like from the moment I wake up to the moment I go to bed?
What kind of work lights me up?
How do I want to feel—physically, emotionally, spiritually?
Who do I want to be surrounded by?

Grab your journal (or better yet, download my free Pinterest to Dream Life Vision Clarity Guide and spend some time reflecting on these questions. Dream big—don’t let the “how” hold you back. This is about what you truly desire.

Step 2: Focus on One Life-Changing Goal

I know it’s tempting to try to tackle everything at once. You want the dream body, the dream career, the dream relationship… all of it. But girl, trust me, focusing on one goal at a time is the secret sauce.

Here’s an exercise I learned from Brian Tracy that has been life-changing: Write down 10 goals you want to achieve. Now, look at that list and ask yourself, Which one of these would change my life the most if it happened in the next 24 hours? That’s the goal you’re going to focus on for the next 12 weeks.

This is exactly what my Accountability Bestie 12-Week Guided Planner is designed to help you with. It’s a daily check-in journal that keeps you laser-focused on your most life-changing goal, breaks it into actionable steps, and keeps you motivated.

Step 3: Break It Down into Daily Habits

Now that you have your goal, it’s time to reverse-engineer it into daily habits. Here’s where your routine comes in. I’ve found that small, consistent actions lead to big results over time. Let me walk you through my personal daily routine to give you an idea of how you can align yours with your dream life goals:

Start with Energy: I kick off my day with supplements and a little natural caffeine to keep my energy up. Your body is your powerhouse—treat it like the queen it is.
Fuel Your Body: High-protein meals are non-negotiable for me. They keep my brain fog-free and my mood in check.
Hydrate, Hydrate, Hydrate: Drinking lots of water is the ultimate glow-up hack.
Get Ready to Feel Good: Skincare, clean makeup, and a cute but comfy outfit set the tone for my day. Even if I’m staying home, this makes me feel productive and confident.
Plan Your Day: The night before, I set up my tasks and calendar. In the morning, I review it and set an intention for the day.
Move Your Body: Whether it’s a walk, yoga, or a quick workout, moving my body helps me feel strong and energized.
Focus with Music: I’m obsessed with focus or study playlists to stay on track during work sessions.
Set 3-5 Goals: I give myself 3-5 manageable goals to achieve each day. This keeps me from feeling overwhelmed.
Wind Down with Rest: Sleep is non-negotiable. I aim for 7-9 hours every night.

Step 4: Plug Into Accountability

Not everyone has a bestie to hold them accountable to their dreams, and that’s okay—you can join a community like my Accountability Besties Circle. We’re a group of goal-getters who encourage and motivate each other every single day. Whether you’re celebrating a win or struggling to stay on track, we’ve got your back. You can join us here.

Step 5: Set 12-Week Goals

Why 12 weeks? Because it’s long enough to make real progress but short enough to keep you focused and motivated. Year-long goals can feel overwhelming, but breaking them down into 12-week chunks makes them way more doable. Plus, you’re less likely to procrastinate when the deadline is closer.

With my Accountability Bestie 12-Week Guided Planner, you’ll have a clear roadmap for your goals. It’s not just about writing them down; it’s about checking in daily, staying on track, and actually making progress. And if you’re struggling to figure out where to start, the Pinterest to Dream Life Vision Clarity Guide will help you map it all out.

Step 6: Build Momentum with Small Wins

Here’s something I’ve learned: Momentum is everything. When you start hitting small milestones, it creates a ripple effect that makes bigger goals feel more attainable. Celebrate every single win, no matter how small it seems. Those wins add up, and they’re proof that you’re moving forward.

Step 7: Stay Consistent

Consistency beats perfection every time. There will be days when life gets messy (hello, single mom life!). But showing up, even in small ways, will keep you moving in the right direction. If you miss a day, don’t beat yourself up—just pick up where you left off. Remember, progress over perfection.

Step 8: Visualize Your Success

I’m a big believer in vision boards. Seeing your dreams visually represented is so powerful. Use Pinterest to create a digital vision board for your goals, or print out images that inspire you. Keep it somewhere you’ll see it daily to remind yourself of what you’re working toward.

Final Thoughts

Bestie, I know life can throw some serious curveballs. I’ve lived through heartbreak, loss, and seasons of feeling completely stuck. But aligning your daily routine with your dream life goals is one of the most powerful ways to reclaim your future. You’re not just surviving—you’re thriving.

If you’re ready to take the next step, grab my Accountability Bestie 12-Week Guided Planner, join the Accountability Besties Circle, and download the free Pinterest to Dream Life Vision Clarity Guide. You’ve got everything you need to start building your dream life—one day, one goal, one routine at a time.

You’ve got this, and I’ve got you.

Xo, Chelsea Elise 💖

How to Align Your Daily Routine With Your Dream Life Goals