Hey bestie! đ
Letâs be real for a second. Life doesnât always go the way we expect it to, right? We have these big dreams, we picture our dream girl lifeâconfident, successful, glowing with purposeâand sometimes, it feels like itâs just out of reach. Youâre not alone in that feeling.
I know what itâs like to feel like youâve hit rock bottom and wonder if youâll ever be able to rise up again. At 19, I was a single mom, overwhelmed by the weight of responsibilities I never planned for. But Iâm here to tell you, from one woman to another, that it doesnât matter where you start. You can achieve your dream girl life, no matter what curveballs life throws at you.
Building the perfect daily routine that aligns with your goalsâwhether theyâre big or smallâhas been the game-changer for me. And guess what? Itâs not just about the hustle. Itâs about the small, intentional actions that make your dream life feel real, every single day. Thatâs the secret: accountability and taking consistent action on your goals.
If youâre ready to dive into creating a routine that aligns with your dreams, Iâve got something special for you! Be sure to check out my free Pinterest to Dream Life Guideâitâs a game-changer for planning your dream girl routine. You can grab it right here.
Okay, letâs get into it.
The Real Secret: Accountability and Taking Daily Action
Hereâs the truth: If youâre not holding yourself accountable, itâs easy to get sidetracked. But when you have a plan, a roadmap, and most importantly, a system to check in daily, achieving your goals is not only possible, itâs inevitable. Thatâs where my Accountability Bestie 12-Week Guided Planner comes in. Think of it as your personal accountability partner. It helps you break down your goals into actionable steps and keeps you on track every single day.
The beauty of this planner is that it forces you to get clear on what you really want. I mean, really clear. Because if you donât know who your dream self is, what she stands for, and what sheâs working toward, how can you show up as her every single day?
Writing down your goals isnât just a cute way to pass the time. Studies show that when you write down your goals, youâre 42% more likely to achieve them. 42% more likely, girl! Thatâs huge.
So, letâs start with clarity.
Step 1: Be Crystal Clear on Your Dream Self
Who is your dream girl? When you picture her, what is she doing? How does she feel? What are her priorities? Itâs essential to have a clear vision of who you want to become, because without that clarity, youâre just drifting. We donât have time for that. Iâm all about intentionality, and the first step in creating a routine that helps you achieve your dreams is knowing exactly who youâre working towards.
Let me tell you this: when you know who your dream self is, the actions become so much easier. Youâll start seeing her in your mindâs eye and think, âWhat would she do today?â And when you take that one stepâjust one little actionâyou start to feel closer to her. Itâs powerful.
Step 2: Break It Down into Daily Action Steps
So now youâre clear on your dream self. Sheâs living the life you want to live, but it feels so far away, right? Not anymore. Break down your goals into daily action steps. Think of the small things you can do every single day to move closer to your dreams.
And I know, life is busy. Youâve got responsibilities, unexpected hurdles, and those days when you feel like everything is going wrong. But even on those days, one small action is enough to keep you moving forward.
This is where my Accountability Bestie 12-Week Guided Planner will be your best friend. Every day, you get to check in, plan your tasks, and track your progress. Itâs like having a personal coach who is always there, rooting for you, and reminding you to stay consistent. Consistency is everything when it comes to turning your goals into a reality.
Step 3: Focus on Your Core Areas: Financial, Self-Care, Mental Health, and Career
Now that youâre clear on your goals and taking daily action, letâs talk about the areas of your life that matter most. You canât build your dream girl routine without keeping tabs on the four key categories that shape your life: financial health, self-care, mental health, and career.
- Financial: Your dream girl isnât stressing about money all the time. Sheâs confident in her financial future and makes moves to create abundance. Whether that means budgeting, saving, or investing, your financial goals should be aligned with your vision of your dream life.
- Self-Care: Dream girls prioritize themselves. Thatâs not selfish, itâs necessary. Build daily self-care rituals that support your physical and emotional well-being. Take time to nourish yourself inside and out.
- Mental Health: Mental clarity is key to living your dream life. Journaling, meditation, or simply taking a walk can help you reset and focus.
- Career: Whether youâre building a business, growing in your job, or figuring out what your dream career looks like, having a clear action plan is vital. Do something every day that moves you toward your professional goals.
Step 4: Take Action, Even on the Tough Days
Hereâs the real magicâtaking action every single day. Itâs easy to let perfectionism or fear hold us back, but remember, progress is better than perfection. Itâs the small actions that add up to big results over time. If youâre struggling with motivation or focus, remember that accountability is key. Thatâs why Iâve designed the Accountability Bestie 12-Week Guided Planner to keep you grounded and motivated. Itâs your daily check-in tool that reminds you of your âwhyâ and helps you get back on track.
Journal Prompts to Help You Stay on Track
As you move forward with your daily routine, these journal prompts can help you reflect on your progress and stay aligned with your goals:
- What is one small action I can take today that will bring me closer to my dream life?
- What does my dream girl routine look like in the next month, and how can I align my actions today to start building it?
- What does self-care look like for me today, and how will I make time for it?
Affirmations to Keep You Going
And girl, when things get tough (because they will), use these affirmations to remind yourself of your power:
- âI am worthy of living my dream life and will take consistent steps to make it my reality.â
- âI am capable of achieving all of my goals, and each day brings me closer to my dream girl self.â
- âI am resilient, and no challenge is too big for me to overcome.â
Final Thoughts
Creating the perfect daily routine isnât about checking boxes or following someone elseâs scheduleâitâs about making intentional, empowered decisions each day that align with your dreams. You are capable of achieving anything you set your mind to, as long as you take consistent action and stay true to yourself.
Remember, itâs all about being clear on your goals, breaking them down into daily actions, and staying accountable. If you need a little extra help along the way, grab my Accountability Bestie 12-Week Guided Planner. Itâs a game-changer, trust me!
So, girl, are you ready to step into your dream girl life? I believe in youâand Iâm here for you every step of the way. Letâs make those dreams a reality.
Youâve got this.
With love,
Chelsea Elise
P.S. Donât forget to grab your free Pinterest to Dream Life Guide here to get started on your journey today!