Ready to get your life together and step into your dream self? Here’s the ultimate glow-up guide to help you set life goals, create better habits, and finally become THAT GIRL in 2025.
Hey bestie,
Let’s be real for a sec—I know exactly what it’s like to feel stuck, overwhelmed, and like your life is just… not giving what it’s supposed to give.
I was 19 years old, a single mom, and absolutely determined to turn my life around. I knew deep down that I was meant for more. I wanted to wake up excited, have the freedom to live life on my terms, and create a reality that felt like aesthetic Pinterest board goals.
But here’s the thing: glowing up your life doesn’t happen by accident. It happens when you get intentional, set real goals, and take action every single day.
✨ Before we dive in, grab my FREE Pinterest to Dream Life Guide to start mapping out your dream life today!
Now, let’s get into it—here’s how to completely get your life together and become the best version of YOU.
Step 1: Figure Out What You Actually Want
If you don’t know where you’re going, how are you supposed to get there? Take some time to reflect on what you truly want.
🌸 What does your dream life look like?
🌸 What makes you feel the happiest and most alive?
🌸 What kind of person do you want to become?
Journal it out. Write it down. Get clear on what you’re working toward. Your glow-up starts with intention.
Step 2: Set 90-Day Life Goals
Forget the five-year plan. Let’s focus on the next 90 days.
✨ What are three things you can do in the next 90 days to move closer to your dream life?
✨ Break them down into small, daily actions.
🔥 Pro tip: My Accountability Bestie 12-Week Planner helps you stay consistent and actually achieve your goals.
Commit to your goals and show up every day. Small steps add up to massive results.
Step 3: Move Your Body & Fuel It Right
You cannot glow up if you’re running on caffeine, fast food, and four hours of sleep.
✅ Find a workout you enjoy (Pilates, weightlifting, walking—anything that makes you feel strong & energized!)
✅ Eat foods that make you feel good (nutrient-packed meals = more energy to change your life)
✅ Drink your water, bestie! Hydration is the ultimate glow-up hack.
Your body is carrying you through this life—treat it like the queen it is.
Step 4: Clean Your Space & Make It a Whole Vibe
Messy room? Messy mind. It’s time to declutter and romanticize your space.
✨ Deep clean your room (yes, even that drawer).
✨ Add candles, fairy lights, and a Pinterest-worthy vibe.
✨ Keep your workspace tidy so you can actually focus.
A clean, cozy space = a clear, focused mind.
Step 5: Cut Out What’s Draining You
This one might be hard, but real talk—some things (and people) are keeping you stuck.
🚫 Toxic friendships that drain your energy? Let them go.
🚫 Spending hours scrolling TikTok & feeling behind? Limit screen time.
🚫 Old habits that don’t align with your goals? Time to replace them with better ones.
If something isn’t helping you grow, it’s holding you back. Period.
Step 6: Figure Out What Sparks Joy (and Do More of It!)
Your life glow-up isn’t just about hustling 24/7—it’s also about enjoying your life.
🌸 What hobbies make you happy?
🌸 What’s something fun you’ve always wanted to try?
🌸 How can you romanticize your daily routine?
The goal isn’t just to be productive—it’s to build a life you’re obsessed with.
Step 7: Get Ready Every Day (Even If You’re Staying Home)
Trust me, bestie—when you look good, you feel good, and when you feel good, you take action.
✨ Morning skincare + SPF = glow-up essential
✨ A little makeup & a cute outfit (even if it’s just a matching loungewear set)
✨ Perfume, lip gloss, earrings = instant confidence boost
You don’t have to go full glam every day, but taking care of your appearance makes a huge difference.
Step 8: Take Action DAILY
Dreams don’t work unless you do.
If you want to glow up your life, you have to commit to showing up—even when you don’t feel like it.
✨ Feeling unmotivated? Do one small task.
✨ Not sure what to do next? Look at your 90-day goals.
✨ Losing focus? Take a break, reset, and get back to it.
Success is built on daily action, not random bursts of motivation.
🔥 Use my Accountability Bestie 12-Week Planner to track your goals & actually follow through.
Final Thoughts: Your Glow-Up Era Starts NOW
Bestie, this is your time. No more waiting for someday. No more doubting yourself.
Decide right now that you’re going all in on your glow-up.
✨ Get clear on what you want
✨ Set goals & take action daily
✨ Move your body & fuel it right
✨ Create a space that inspires you
✨ Cut out what’s holding you back
✨ Romanticize your life & enjoy the process
Your dream life is waiting—and you’re about to make it a reality.
Which glow-up step are you starting with first? Comment below & let’s get it together, bestie!
Xo, Chelsea Elise
