You dream of becoming That Girl — the confident, glowing, put-together version of you.
But right now, you feel stuck.
The truth is, it’s not because you’re lazy, broken, or unlucky.
It’s because you’re missing four key things: clarity, discipline, strategy, and accountability.
Without clarity, you don’t even know exactly what you’re chasing.
Without discipline, you fall back into old patterns.
Without strategy, you’re winging it and hoping for a glow up.
Without accountability, it’s too easy to quit when life gets busy.
✨ Good news: you can change all of this — starting today.
That’s exactly why I created the Pinterest to Dream Life Guide — a totally free roadmap to help you actually bring all those aesthetic dreams to life this year! 🎀✨
Step 1: Get Clear On What You Truly Want
What does your dream life actually look like?
What do you want your mornings, body, relationships, and career to feel like?
You can’t glow up if you don’t know what you’re glowing into.
Take a few minutes today and journal it out:
✨ What does your ideal day look like?
✨ How do you feel?
✨ What kind of energy do you bring into every room?
✨ What does your environment look like?
Paint the full picture. Romanticize every tiny detail.
(And if you need help getting extra clear, grab the Pinterest to Dream Life Guide — it’ll make this part soooo much easier.)
Step 2: Eliminate the Distractions Holding You Back
Cut the junk food that drains your energy.
Distance yourself from negative friends who keep you stuck.
Turn off the endless reality shows that steal your time and self-esteem.
Make space for the woman you’re becoming.
You can’t pour into your dream life if you’re still drinking from the junk cup. 😵💫
It’s time to lovingly ditch:
- Negative self-talk
- Drama-filled friendships
- Junk food that makes you feel blah
- Reality shows that drain your energy
- Bad habits that don’t align with your future self
This isn’t about “being perfect.” It’s about choosing better, one small moment at a time.
Step 3: Create Your Glow Up Strategy
Decide your exact steps for the next 90 days.
A glow up without a plan is just a Pinterest board.
Harsh but true.
You need a simple, clear strategy:
- Meal plan for nourishing your body 🌱
- Plan your outfits the night before 👗
- Build a daily and weekly glow up routine
- Schedule self-care like it’s a non-negotiable appointment
The magic is in the consistency. (Not perfection — consistency.)
Know exactly what needs to happen each week — no guessing.
(Need help? Check out my full 90-Day Glow Up Sprint blog post for the ultimate step-by-step plan!)
Step 4: Build a System That Makes It Easy to Stay Consistent
Nothing feels better than seeing your own progress.
(Seriously, it’s addictive.)
Don’t trust your brain to “just remember.”
Use a planner system (like my Glow Up Accountability Bestie) to track habits, routines, and small wins.
When you can see your progress, you stay motivated.
When you have a plan, you stay focused.
Step 5: Surround Yourself with Accountability and Motivation
Life isn’t always linear. You’re going to have hard days.
That’s normal, babe. That’s growth.
Stack your inspiration everywhere:
- Make playlists that hype you up
- Follow motivational YouTube channels (like mine 😉)
- Read books like Atomic Habits and The Mountain is You
- Find a bestie or accountability partner who’s chasing her glow up too
Surround yourself with reminders that you are capable and worthy of your dream life.
Because you are.
Final Glow Up Pep Talk
You don’t have to wait for a new year, a glow up season, or perfect timing.
Your glow up starts the second you choose it.
So, are you ready to stop scrolling and start living?
✨ Grab your Pinterest to Dream Life Guide to start planning your dream life today.
✨ Snag your Glow Up Accountability Bestie Planner to stay motivated, track your goals, and finally stick to the habits that will transform your life this year.
I’m cheering for you so hard.
This is YOUR season to shine. 🌸
Xo,
Chelsea Elise
