Ready to step into your that girl era? This step-by-step guide shows you exactly how to be that girl in 2026..
I’ll be honest with you, bestie. For years I pinned all the that girl routines, the smoothie recipes, the 5AM alarms, the Pilates workouts—and I thought becoming her would mean living up to this picture-perfect aesthetic.
But here’s what I’ve learned: being that girl isn’t about perfection. It’s about building consistency, discipline, and a glow up that feels aligned with your real life. It’s about embodying the version of yourself you’ve always dreamed of becoming.
And if you’ve ever wondered how to be that girl, this step-by-step guide will finally show you exactly how to do it. Let’s glow, bestie.
✨ Before we dive in—don’t forget to grab my free Pinterest to Dream Life Guide. It’s your first step to glow up your lifestyle and actually stick to your dream goals this year.
Step 1: Get Clear on Who
That Girl
Is for You
Your version of that girl might not look like mine—or TikTok’s. She could be soft, minimal, cozy, or bold and fearless. Write down what your dream self looks like in her routines, relationships, career, and energy.
Step 2: Build a Morning Routine That Fuels You
That girl starts her day with intention. Think journaling, meditation, a nourishing breakfast, or movement that feels good. The goal isn’t 5AM perfection—it’s presence and clarity.
Step 3: Prioritize Wellness from the Inside Out
Glowing skin, shiny hair, and confidence all start with health. Hydrate, move your body, get quality sleep, and fuel yourself with food that makes you feel vibrant.
Step 4: Curate Your Environment
Declutter your space and create an atmosphere that inspires you. That girl energy thrives in clean, feminine spaces filled with tiny luxuries like fresh flowers or a candle that makes you feel at peace.
Step 5: Upgrade Your Style With Intention
This doesn’t mean an entirely new wardrobe. It’s about dressing with confidence. Swap old pieces for staples that feel aligned with your dream life.
Step 6: Master Productive Girl Habits
Being that girl means knowing how to be productive without burning out. Plan your days, use accountability tools, and create rhythms that keep you consistent with your glow up goals.
Step 7: Protect Your Energy
Boundaries are that girl’s best friend. Say no when needed, unfollow accounts that drain you, and surround yourself with people who uplift you.
Step 8: Embody the Dream Now
This is the secret: that girl isn’t a someday goal—she’s already inside you. Start speaking, walking, and showing up as her now. The more you embody her energy, the faster your glow up unfolds.
How To Be That Girl in 2026
Becoming that girl is less about “looking the part” and more about committing to clarity, consistency, and accountability. It’s about choosing routines, spaces, and habits that reflect the dream version of you.
And if you’re ready for accountability that sticks, my Glow Up Accountability Bestie Planner will guide you through the next 12 weeks with step-by-step systems to keep you aligned with your glow up goals.
Because bestie—your dream life is waiting.
Xo,
Chelsea Elise
