Hey bestie,
You’ve got the vision board.
You’ve got the pins.
You can see her—confident, glowing, put-together… that girl.
But right now? You feel stuck in the “almost.” 🫠
Here’s the truth, bestie: you’re not lazy, broken, or unlucky.
You’re just missing four pieces that make the whole puzzle click:
- Clarity → If you don’t know exactly what you’re building, you’ll keep “trying” without traction.
- Discipline → Without gentle structure, old patterns will win every time.
- Strategy → Winging it is not a glow up plan; you need steps, not vibes.
- Accountability → Life gets busy; support keeps you consistent when motivation dips.
“The distance between dreams and reality is action.”
✨ Good news: you can change all of this—starting today.
Grab your free Pinterest to Dream Life Vision Map—your clarity GPS that turns dreamy boards into a step-by-step plan you’ll actually follow. 🎀✨
Step 1: Get Clear On What You Truly Want
You can’t glow up if you don’t know what you’re glowing into.
Journal it out (5–10 minutes):
- ✨ What does your ideal day look like (a regular Tuesday, not a fantasy Saturday)?
- ✨ How do you want to feel in your body, mind, and space?
- ✨ What energy do you bring into every room?
- ✨ What does your environment look/smell/sound like?
Paint the full picture. Romanticize the tiny details—mugs, morning light, playlists, pilates mats.
Need help getting crystal clear? Your Pinterest to Dream Life Vision Map breaks this into easy prompts.
Step 2: Eliminate the Distractions Holding You Back
Make space for the woman you’re becoming.
Lovingly ditch (or downgrade) the things that drain you:
- Negative self-talk & comparison spirals
- Drama-filled friendships that keep you stuck
- Junk food that tanks your energy
- Endless reality shows that steal your evenings
- Habits that don’t align with your future self
This isn’t about perfection; it’s about choosing better, one small moment at a time.
Step 3: Create Your 90-Day Glow Up Strategy
A glow up without a plan is just… a Pinterest board. (Harsh, but true.)
Build a simple, clear strategy:
- 🌱 Fuel: Rough-draft a 3–4 meal rotation that makes you feel amazing.
- 👗 Outfits: Plan tomorrow’s look tonight (one hanger = zero morning decision fatigue).
- 📆 Routine: Pick 3 daily non-negotiables (e.g., 10-min movement, 5-min tidy, 5-min journal).
- 🧖♀️ Self-care: Schedule it like an appointment (hair mask, long walk, skincare reset).
The magic isn’t perfection—it’s consistency.
Step 4: Build Systems That Make Consistency Easy
Don’t trust your brain to “just remember.” Create gentle scaffolding:
- Habit stacking: “After I make coffee → I journal three lines.”
- Visual cues: Lay out your mat, fill your water, set the glass by your sink.
- Tiny floors: On hard days, do the 2-minute version (two squats, two lines, two dishes).
- Track lightly: Calendar checkmarks, notes app wins list, or a cute habit tracker.
Need a fast identity reset when you wobble? Press play on Glow Up SOS: 24HR Emergency Glow Up Kit (Audio Bundle)—subliminals, affirmations, and visualization to snap you back into that girl energy by tomorrow.
Step 5: Surround Yourself With Accountability & Motivation
You won’t feel motivated every day. That’s normal. Build a support bubble:
- Create a hype playlist (songs that make you move before you think).
- Follow motivational YouTube channels (pop your fave short from above into your morning routine).
- Read a page a day from Atomic Habits or The Mountain Is You.
- Ask one friend to do Sunday check-ins (“Wins, Challenges, Focus for next week”).
- Put a sticky note on your mirror: “I’m becoming her—today counts.”
“You don’t need a new year; you need a new pattern.”
Your 90-Day “That Girl” Plan (At-a-Glance)
Month 1 — Clarity & Reset
- Define your Top 3 goals (body, space, career—choose what moves your life).
- Set 3 daily non-negotiables.
- Do a space reset one surface at a time.
- Script your dream Tuesday and live one piece of it this week.
Month 2 — Strategy & Systems
- Each goal → Weekly Big 1 action.
- Batch the boring (Sunday plan, grocery list template, outfit rail).
- Habit-stack & place visual cues.
- Track tiny wins you can see.
Month 3 — Discipline & Accountability
- Lock in a weekly check-in (self or bestie).
- Raise the floor, not the ceiling (minimums > all-or-nothing).
- Review & refine every Sunday—keep what works, delete what doesn’t.
- Celebrate evidence (photos, notes, mini rewards).
Try-This-Today (5 Minutes)
- Write your Top 3 glow up goals for the next 90 days.
- Choose one daily non-negotiable and start tonight.
- Remove five items from the first space you see every morning.
Your Next Two Steps (Soft CTA, Big Results)
💖 Step 1 — Get Clear: Download the Pinterest to Dream Life Vision Map to turn your pins into a real plan you’ll follow.
💎 Step 2 — Get Momentum: Play the Glow Up SOS: 24HR Emergency Glow Up Kit (Audio Bundle) whenever you need an instant identity shift back into that girl energy.
You don’t have to wait for perfect timing.
Your glow up starts the second you choose it.
You’re not behind—you’re one decision away from momentum.
In 90 days, your routines won’t look the same—in the best way.
I’m cheering for you, always.
This is your season to shine. 🌸
Xo,
Chelsea Elise